There is so much about ourselves that we don’t love – maybe the way we look or the things we say or do. So often though, we don’t acknowledge this dislike of our ourselves and instead project it onto the people around us and say “I don’t like the way he/she looks/behaves.”
It’s time now to take responsibility for how we feel. When we become aware of blaming others for their apparent short-comings recognise the insecure, negative part of us that feels the need to criticise. That little part of us is just crying out to be loved and accepted. So love it completely. You can look upon it as the small self or the hurt inner child or just your humaness. When that part of us is accepted and loved the hurt dissolves and a miracle occurs.
In loving every part of ourself, loving and accepting every part of everyone else becomes easy.